If you are considering counseling, here is what should happen once you make the call. Phone a counselor (or several) and share in a minute or two what is going on: e.g.
I'm feeling sad I am breaking up with my fiancee and feel overwhelmed. My parent has died and I can't stop cryingI am feeling anxious and worried all the time. My spouse was caught cheating. I have been fired and feel lost
Ask if the counselor has experience in this area Ask the cost
See if the counselor and you both have compatible schedules for future appointments The counselor may send/email you forms in advance If you have any special concerns or worries, voice them during this phone call
And like all other Licensed Health Care Practitioners, confidentiality, respect, and a standard of care that meets your needs and considerations should be expected