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2.24.2013

Ten Things Not to Say to a Person With a Service Dog


1.     Why do you have a service dog?

2.     Where can I get one of those?

3.     You don’t look disabled.

4.     What do I have to do to get one of those labs?

5.     How expensive are those?

6.     Are you going blind?

7.     Are you training this dog?

8.     Can you bring him into this store/church/restaurant?

9.     I should have brought my animals too! 
10. Can I pet him?

(yes, these are all things actually said!)


     Most of us think of service dogs as a blind person’s companion. But, wonderfully, man’s best friend has proven to be a powerful partner for people with other disabilities. 

     I know an autistic boy who has his service dog tethered to him 24/7 because the child runs dangerously away from his home. The dog lays on him when he gets up suddenly or as he tries to leave the front door, until the proper command is given. 

     The service dog is not a pet. A service dog is intentionally separated from other dogs to prevent the natural canine pack mentality, which would divorce the dog from his master. Once the dog has begun to learn and adapt to his role, then “puppy socializing” begins in small doses – such is the methodical and painstaking process.

     Another service dog helps a person with multiple daily seizures. The service animal anticipates a seizure and alerts the owner so that safety precautions can be taken quickly.   
     And, more Veterans are thankfully utilizing service dogs as part of their return from a combat zone. With hand signals, the animal companion provides emotional support and comfort, even applying deep pressure therapy (via paws) as owner’s anxiety rises - an excellent grounding technique. 

     Service dogs are highly trained, as is the human, with an average cost of $10,000 per dog. Some recipients of a service companion personally fund raise for its' purchase, then wait patiently for the perfect dog, one that matches their exact needs and temperament. The two are trained together, in unison. It is a lengthy and complex process. 

     For many persons, walking around with a service dog is an “outing” that feels embarrassing and uncomfortable, “people will know." The service dog experience in itself can be an emotional and challenging time, until the comfortability catches up with the relief and assistance the dog can ultimately provide. 

     Service dogs have categories as well and can be referred to as Medical Alert Dogs, Psychiatric Service Dogs or Emotional Support Dogs.

     Do not to ask to pet the dog. The human/companion dyad are a symbiotic pair, sharing 24 hours, 7 days a week together. View the animal is a physical and mental extension of the person.
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