Many years ago, there was a great call-in advice show hosted by Jungian Psychoanalyst, Dr. Toni Grant.
She fielded questions and dilemmas on dating and creating romantic connections.
Her advice was always be "busy and happy" when he calls.
Be "happy and busy" when she asks how things are going.
There's nothing less sexy than a drip, a drab, a hollow sounding emptiness that scares the bejeezus out a a healthy person looking for a meaningful relationship.
So, if you are looking, or if you have found someone but they don't seem too interested, check yourself...how do others hear you?
try being Happy And Busy.